How To Turn a Casual Booty Call Into A Serious Relationship

How To Turn a Casual Booty Call Into A Serious Relationship

Ok we all know this one, especially when we are young. We sometimes get involved with someone we like but know is not serious and don’t really expect the relationship to last. But what if you want it to go the distance? What if you have a feeling that your baseball cap , saggy jean, swagger-lishes hunk can be turned into someone serious that you can finally call your man. The very first thing ladies is to not to allow bad behaviour. Things kept you in that booty call relation when he started to only call when he wanted something or ignored you when he saw you out and worse when he’s out the door as soon as he gets his sex. This kind of behaviour is not the type of thing relationships are built on so you gotta stamp it out asap.

The trick is to never let the guy go slack with you. He will be the charming boy at the beginning but will steadily pull all that away until you become Tuesdays girl (that’s if you let him) . If you want him to call, stop waiting for him to call and call him! This is something you want, go get it. If you would rather text, then send something cute like, “I was just thinking about your lips.” Do and say things that make you girlfriend material!

The difference between a casual booty call and a boyfriend is that the bootycall is just sex and after a while it it leaves you feeling used. So watch out for the booty call text’s. what do I mean?? Texting has become the standard way bootycalls communicate. It means they can avoid all the lush talk and so they can get in and get out without bonding or effort. So if you want to make your bootycall into a boyfriend, you have to communicate on a much deeper level … frequently you need to talk. You see their are secrets to sneering a guy and your secret weapon is TIME. Are you hearing me ladies, TIME! Guys generally fall in love over time. The longer and more time they spend with you the more fond of you they get. And that’s what booty calls try to avoid.

First of all, you need to stop being such a pushover and show him how cool you really are. Make sure he knows you are having a great time without him. Your out with your friends not waiting for his calls. Also you can’t go from booycall into a girlfriend without being boyfriend material. So make sure your actions reflect just what a ‘girlfriend trophy’ should be. ‘Girl friend trophy’ you ask? … that’s our way of describing what men consider to be the catch of a girlfriend (but we’ll talk deeper on another blog.)

Here’s the Rules: stop being sad or whiny around him. It sounds like every time you contact each other, you are upset because he doesn’t come round enough or doesn’t call you. Basically you are just reminding him of why he will only keep you as a bootycall. Girl get happy!!!!!! Get sexy, hot and get confident and mysterious. Don’t give him any sex when he comes round, say to him lets talk or watch a film. Switch the tables around when he sometimes calls to come round , tell him you cant meet as you are going out with your girlfriends hitting the town. Make him feel that he may sometimes get what he needs from you, but he’s not getting everything he wants. Booty calls don’t have the same power over you as a boyfriend so he cant say “where are you going or who are you with”. If and when he does ask the questions Bam!!! your in girl, its the beginning of him being hooked. Because its a sign that he is beginning to care.

And what does he want? He wants a girl he can be proud to have on his arm. (trophy) Not only do you have to make yourself cute, but you also have to be fashionable, witty, and engaging. This is all what attracts guys. Remember try not to fall into that typical whiny insecure girl that booty calls prey on. Get your beauty and sexy game on and show him why you will never be a booty call again ;]

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7 comments

  1. Argenta

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  2. Tootie A

    I disagree it’s men out there that want booty calls & feel they are not ready for a relationship but once they want what they can’t have then you have his attention because you switched the game up on his ass & say nah partna not tonite I’m busy…then trust you have hiis attention & the ball is in your court cuz it enables him to have his cake & eat it too…I totally agree with the article & I am a witness to it…yes it worked & I reeled his ass rite on in cuz I stopped being the YES girl!!!

  3. Smita

    I agree with Jaja, about the lack of places to socialose and the facebook persona quote is hillarious! What is “wifey material” to one man is booty call material to another. I think if a man see’s you as a booty call from the get go, that’ll be hard to change. Unless you dont have sex with him?

    1. peeks

      hey smita, glad u like the article, thanks for feedback, i agree it would be mighty hard to change from booty to wifey, but if u take control and not give in maybe he could cum around x

  4. Jaja

    As a black man, I disagree with Papi Chulo. There is no such thing as ‘natural wifey material’. A girl who may be ‘wife material’ to one guy, may not be ‘wife material’ to another guy.  A girl who may have been a party girl in her teens may decide after getting a stable career or reaching a certain age that she’s had enough of the free-for-all lifestyle. The same men who met her 5 or ten years previously may then be surprised to find how her values have changed. Sometimes we all need to do some personal growing-up, whether we are male or female, because we all have issues and garbage from our childhoods and the ways we were raised.

    I think the biggest problem of all is that – for those who live in London and the South-East of the UK – there aren’t enough places for black people to actually meet and mingle socially. A lot of fairly prominent black clubs and bars in London have been closed down recently (SW8, Nollywood, Gold Coast Bar in Brixton, for example), and clubbing itself is not exactly suitable for meeting The One – not all black people like typical ‘black’ club music – I frequently find myself bored after a short stint of pounding noise in my ear – and anyway the music is so loud, everyone’s got their “I’m-here-to-show-off-and-get-photographed-for-Facebook” persona, that you have a very low chance of actually having a genuine, non-superficial conversation with anybody, let alone forging a serious relationship. I’ve started hanging out in the smoking sections of clubs, just so I can talk to people for a while, even though I don’t smoke and can’t stand smoking. Why? Because that’s often the only place someone can talk to you without spraying your ear with saliva as they’re shouting into your brain!

    We actually can cope with less clubs, but what we desperately need are more afternoon garden parties for black singles; more group picnic events, more barbecue events, more poetry and live jazz events, more single-and-mingle events; places where the light isn’t turned down low, (we even need more black speed-dating events!) places where you can have an actual conversation and see what the person you’re talking to looks like without strobe lights in your eyes or excessive alcohol in your blood-stream. In these more conducive environments our different personalities will be more likely to show themselves, and girls can overlook the sagging-trousered thugs with pointless tattoos and biceps-but-no-brains, and everyone is forced to talk to one another, revealing whether they have anything in their brains or not.

  5. The Moam Network

    hey@e1673c8b4a8fe4d8e6f40aa708db7d95:disqus thanx for your comments. were not trying to “make” girls be a certain way, were advising them that if they really like a guy they have been casually seeing & want it to be more, then this is a way of possibly making it happen. I agree with you, ladies should be themselves. Most guys we know & from experience do think sex from the get go lol but like the article says, over time that’s when real feelings kick in. Feelings grow with time for both people & they usually begin 2 care so thats the best time to test the waters & see if it can really blossom further. x

  6. Papi Chulo

    You can’t “make” yourself “wifey-material” (as people call it), it comes natural. As much as you try, a guy (with sense) will be able to see through the act…just be yourself and everything will fall into place. If he approached you with booty-call intentions, personally speaking – I can’t see much hope of changing that, there was something about you that made him think “sex” instead of “wifey”. 

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