Its tough enough just being a woman, most of the time we cant figure ourselves out, one day we want to focus on our career, save for an apartment the next day its totally changed, we want to pack our job in & go travelling around the world lol When it comes to relationships we sometimes change ourselves to accommodate the man we want to attract, but what is it men really want from a girl? They say they want a princess on the street and a whore in the bedroom WOW! So which girl catches the guy, the good girl or the bad girl? Here’s what guys think about the qualities of both.
What’s Good About The Bad Girl
She’s fun. She can party all night, drink herself into a stupor and still get up the next day and be ready for more. She’ll laugh and flirt, and make you feel like a man.
Bad girls are walking adrenaline rushes. For her, life is a roller coaster ride, and it’ll get your blood singing just to be along for the trip. Bad girls never have time for introspection or depression — they’re too busy grabbing the world by the horns.
She craves sex from you
The bad girl loves men and makes no bones about it. She’s more than happy to fulfill any fantasy you can dream up. She’s the kind who will tear up the sheets while she’s screaming out her seventh orgasm in a row (you’ll feel like you’re the king of the sexual world). And you won’t have to deal with any head games — she’s more than happy to seduce you 24/7.
She’s eye candy
Bad girls are usually very attractive with jaw-dropping figures — the ultimate “hot babes.” They know how to walk the walk and strut their stuff. They get off on being the centre of male attention. A bad girl loves plunging necklines, bare midriffs, high heels, skirts hemmed at mid-thigh, strapless anything, and sexy lingerie (if she wears any underwear at all).
She up’s your status
When you have a stunner like this on your arm, all other men are jealous and women are intrigued, and immediately your stud rating soars into the stratosphere. You’ll be the stuff of legends when you regale your buddies with tales from your bedroom.
What’s Bad about The Bad Girl
All men want her and she knows it, and she’s definitely a serial flirter. Because she’s such a sexual animal, she’s apt to seduce anyone who strikes her fancy, so you shouldn’t expect a bad girl to be loyal.
She’s the type who will go 100 in a 30 mph zone just because she likes the rush. She may be into drugs or excessive alcohol consumption. She’s spontaneous, unpredictable and wild.
She makes a bad partner
Bad girls are extremely self-obsessed and selfish. They think about one person: themselves. They’re extravagant and will spend their last dime on themselves. They don’t settle down comfortably. For these reasons, they usually make lousy wives and mothers, and rarely survive lifelong relationships.
She is expensive
No low-maintenance here — from day one she’ll be looting your wallet for expensive meals, trips and jewellery. The typical bad girl sets a very high price on the use of her vagina, and if you don’t want
The Good thing about The Good Girl
She’s wholesome and nice. A good girl is rarely bitchy or “empowered.” She’s pleasant to be around and has a positive attitude toward life. She’ll go out of her way to help you or take care of you when you’re sick, and when problems arise, she’ll discuss them calmly, instead of flying into a rage or screaming at you just because you’re a “man.”
She’s a clean slate
With her limited sexual experience, a good girl doesn’t have a lot of men to compare you to and won’t expect you to be a world-class lover. She can be moulded.
She’s unlikely to cheat on you
Good girls tend to be homebodies, not party girls. Because she doesn’t present herself in the same sexually-alluring manner that a bad girl does, you won’t have to worry about a lot of other guys coming on to her. A good girl wants to find the one true love of her life and stay with him until death do them part, instead of seducing half the male population before she gets too old.
She’s often your best friend awww
She genuinely enjoys your company and gives back to you as much as she takes. When you’re gone, she misses you; when you’re at home, she showers you with attention.
She’s easier on finances
Good girls can rate low on the maintenance scale — they’re much more likely to share dating expenses (just because it’s the right thing to do), and if you get married, she’ll happily throw her pay check in with yours to pay the mortgage and bills.
She makes a good potential wife & mother
The typical good girl is practical, down-to-earth and nurturing. She loves children. She usually comes from a good family and wants to carry on those family values in her own life.
Why the good girl may still may not be right…The Bad thing about The Good Girl
She’s about as exciting as vanilla. Since she’d rather stay at home reading a book than go out partying, life with a good girl can be a bit uneventful.
She can be a sexual bore
Good girls are often boring in bed, either from lack of experience or lack of desire. Sex with her is predictable. She rarely inspires lust and will probably wait for her man to initiate lovemaking. This can leave the typical guy very unfulfilled, his gaze straying toward that bad girl over there with the unfettered nipples and the long wraparound legs.
She’s fashionably comfortable
She wears her hair pulled back and little make-up. She prefers sweats and tennis shoes to mini skirts and pumps. Often times, you can forget about thong underwear.
The Good To Bad
So the question remains: Which one should you choose? The obvious answer is that the perfect woman would embody the best of both of these types — the niceness and loyalty of the good girl and the sexual abandon of the bad girl.
While such women may exist naturally out there, it’s more likely that, to achieve this ideal, you’ll have to train to be a bit of both ladies. This may not be an easy task, because many good girls have been brainwashed by mum, church or school/friends etc into thinking that “bad” is inherently wrong. So the trick is to encourage your natural sexuality. Its great to care, be your man’s friend & be a lil predictable but if you can still keep him on his toes with unexpected surprises, ditching the tracksuit bottoms & wearing your sexiest outfits more often than not, keep him guessing about your next move etc you will find the right balance to keep him gasping for more. This should be the goal forever amen in any relationship for it to survive long term happiness for both parties.
So do you know a girl like this, are you one, do you think a woman can be the entire package?