Hey girls. If you’re man is anything like the guys I’ve dated he will probably think nothing of falling asleep right after sex (I know, its rubbish lol) but I know you might have other ideas. The thing is that most men don’t think of cuddling as something which you should do after-sexual activity. Its in the woman’s nature to want a talk and a cuddle after sex, so a man that realises this (most men don’t even know) will benefit from it. Here are some reasons why women love cuddling after sex and why all guys should do it…hint hint.
1. Sex leaves her feeling vulnerable. Every woman wants to feel loved even after a few hours of uninhibited animal sex. She wants to know that she is adored by the man she slept with.
2. Cuddling after sex turns into a woman’s emotional release. Having an orgasm during sex is satisfying, but the emotional gratification isn’t complete without some romantic cuddling after sex.
3. Unlike many men, women can go for seconds after a short while. Women are capable of multiple orgasms, but don’t always come one after another during sex. Sometimes, a woman needs to recuperate and recharge her physical and emotional batteries by cuddling before going for it again.
4. Cuddling adds a compassionate warmth and romance after a wild session of “animal” sex
5. A display of affection by romantically cuddling can boost arousal for round two. Think of it as after-play and foreplay for the next session.
6. Cuddling after sex is a woman’s way of saying “let’s talk”. Women treat sex like an intimate date, which means conversation before and after sex.
7. I know most guys would rather turn over and hit the zzzzz’s right after love making, but trying to stay awake to hear her talk about her day is recommended even if its for 5 minutes (we promise we wont chat for long if you did a good job ;p)
What do you guys think, have you ever been left feeling vulnerable after sex?
Do you think men should always deliver the after-sex talk or cuddle? drop your comment below x