7 SIGNS YOU ARE YOU JUST A BOOTY CALL

7 SIGNS YOU ARE YOU JUST A BOOTY CALL

Don’t you just hate being booty called! There is always some guy that thinks that he can just call up and get it on with a few words on the phone.
But what is a Booty call? Originally, a booty call is one of those late-night phone calls when some guy is horny wanting to come over for sex. Now a booty call is generally a guy who’s not really serious about the relationship but will call in when he’s feeling a little frisky.

No girl I know wants to be labelled as a booty call, but what if you generally like the person in question that is making the booty call? And what if you are trying to work out if he is serious about you or or not? When elements of quality times are missing such as times out to the night club or quiet night in watching the TV and chatting’ from a relationship point of view, the sexual side seems to be the only surviving aspect. Sometimes a girl can fall for this and just get ‘booty called’ when ever the guy wants sex but she thinks there is more to the relationship. This can be an ideal situation for a dude who’s “not very in touch with his emotions or maybe playing away with a wifee somewhere else. But How do you know? How would you know if you are a Booty Call?

The question remains, “am I a booty call?” There’s a few solid ways to find out:

1: Does the bulk of your time spent together involve “naked time?”

2:Have you met any of his friends?

3: Does he hang and chill with you after sex or does he make excuses then rush out or rush you out?

4: Do you do things that don’t always end with a sexual encounter?

5: Do you do any date things together, i.e. dinner, shows, movies, etc.?

6: Does he ever ask questions about your world or have meaningful conversations about your life?

7: And obviously, does he call late at night wanting to come over?

The first step in how not to become a booty call is to minimize the sexual aspect of your interactions. If he realizes that all he has to do is take you out for some Nandos and you’ll have sex with him afterwards, then he will be trained to do “date-like” things to get your clothes off.

Hang out with him a few times, but create situations where you can’t stay for sex or there is no possibility of sex. Sure, do all the touching and kissing you want, but you have other stuff going on later and don’t have time for nudity. See how he reacts.

This is the true measure of what his intentions are. If he doesn’t want to just hang out or gets upset that you aren’t giving him any, then he only has intentions of making you a booty call! Sure he did all those cute, lovely, great things with you before he saw you naked, but now that he got what he wanted (and continues to) he doesn’t have to work so hard any more. A true measure of a man’s desire to be with you happens after sex, not before. So don’t look at all the sweet things he did for you before you slept with him.

Time for some thinking eh ladies!

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7 comments

  1. Tai A

    Nice piece. I was contacted at about 9pm yesternight to come over to a guys place. He, ofcourse knows am in love with him. I said No, he feigned sadness but he let me be. Still kinda hoping he ll see me in the light i want to be seen, but if he doesnt, i am moving on. Wiser and stronger.x

  2. Samantha

    I agreed to be friends with benefits. Yes…I know…I thought we’d both enjoy but I changed my mind alot after he started gloating about it in front of friends–not outright, but humiliating me with innuendos. Even they looked like they hated it. He would say it was okay if I refused but got mad only turning me off even more. I answered yes to all the questions and was surprised…But what you said about it matters how he acts after is what counts is exactly true. I gave it away too soon…But that doesn’t give him excuse although it seems obvious to someone sensible reading this that he would behave that way. I never would have done that him.

    1. peeks

      hey samantha, thanks so much for sharing your story, i guess u live and u learn! im glad u were strong enough to walk away from that guy, u are a very special lady and deserve the best that u will give in return someone, dont waste ur goodies ;p keep em in the jar for a real “man” who knows how to treat u inside and outside the bedroom. be blessed in your next relationship

      may the most high bless u x

  3. Redexe

    Hoe’s know a booty call when the get it. They just ACT like they don’t. They know from the start and accept it, but then, want more..When they cant have it and the guy bails, they jump on face book talking about how all men ain’t shit.

  4. Shug

    Number 7 supercedes all the others in my view. I’d add a slight alteration to that one in someone just turning up late at night, whether they call or not, knowing you are going to be at home. It’s not for me as it must be humiliating. Assuming it’s unwelcome of course!!!

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