OK as a girl this always use to confuse me. Having been an ugly duckling when I was younger, I wasn’t approached by boys, I eventually grew into a swan (so I’m told lol) and guess what? I still don’t get approached by guys!.( Well its not as bad as ‘no’ guys) but is there some truth in this? Hot girls seem not to get approached as mush as you think they should. Hot, pretty girls are perceived to be unapproachable, AND there are lots of pretty girls without men because of this issue. But why?- is the big question?
Well imagine a work place where all the girls have to dress up in uniform and as do the men. There’s no ranking, everyone is at the same level. The guys would have a much easier task at chatting to any women they desire as there isn’t much difference between the girls, so women have a chance to get approached by guys. This leads to them being more approachable because they don’t develop a perceived superiority to the other girls.
Now in our society there is a massive difference between the looks and status of the girls. There are a few that guys feel are really hot, attractive and then you have all the others. What tends to happens is the few attractive girls get all the attention EVERYDAY wherever they go. This sometimes creates this inflated sense of self-worth in some of the girls heads. So now you get these girls who give off a vibe that they know they are hot and they never seem to smile. They feel that they can get any guy they want so don’t have to entertain any guy that approaches them. Which makes them sometimes come over as rude and un-attractive to talk to. And black girls are not known to shy away from giving a tongue lashing so quite a few men who generally are polite get a rude awakening for approaching these haughty type of girls . Unfortunately this has a knock on effect, as the more girls who do this the more men feel they can’t approach them based on this experience or hearsay.
This has the effect of giving the hot girls, that are descent and warm hearted a bad name. People think they’re ALL stuck up because of the ones that can’t be gracious about their God-given good looks. Which are actually the luck of the draw and have nothing to do with their own actual worth, but instead is a function of their parent’s genes.The guys looking to get a girlfriend eventually get tired of the demands of hot girls ways. Its why you see more average girls in a relationship who go on to get married than hot girls who are forever looking for that perfect guy that they think they so rightly deserve.
What do you think, do you know this type of girl?