Im gonna let the men talk here, and give it to us straight. Here’s what he wants you to do, no fuss, unadultarated 12 sex tips to boost your bedroom play and bond, enjoy!
Stimulate him visually
Play up to his eyes with a slow, seductive striptease, and watch him go weak at the knees. Don’t worry about labels or expensive lingerie too much, by all means dress to thrill, but you can just as easily make his heart race by tantalisingly removing your work clothes.
Buy loads of pillows and experiment with heights, shapes, and widths, so you can use them for extra support during sex, to help give the optimum angle for different positions.
This doesn’t mean you have to be easy. Men enjoy a challenge, just so long as they know where they stand. So, if you want him to do something to you, he’ll rate you for being up front about it, and eager to oblige.
Guide him by the hand
Showing your man what turns you on can be just as arousing for him. If he’s missing the mark, give him directions. If he can see the pleasure he’s giving you, it will boost his confidence and help him to relax.
Mix it up
Women love a blended orgasm – when more than one part is stimulated at the same time – and the same goes for men. Don’t think of his bits as a hunk of meat attached to his body; imagine it as a complex bit of kit with many different components, each giving off their own particular sensations. When you combine your technique with a swirl of the tongue or a caress of his intimates get ready to step back.
The right angle
Try a slight swivelling motion with your head during oral. Just a slight turn of the neck is all that’s needed. We don’t want you breaking your spine.
Take him in your mouth when he’s still soft. The feeling of stiffening in the woman’s mouth is a great turn-on for both partners.
When using a condom, slip a few drops of a water-based lubricant inside the tip before you slip it on the head. It allows us to manoeuvre comfortably inside. Add some of the same lubricant, too, on the outside of the condom to give yourself a smoother ride.
Play all the positions in the field
If you’re bored on your back then suggest something new. Athletic sex appeals to the sportsman inside every guy. Even if they can’t keep up, they’ll be aroused by your enthusiasm.
Let him play with your toys
If you want to introduce toys into your sessions but your partner is a bit iffy about it, start with the smallest, least phallic-looking toys in the shop, and let him use them on you, so he doesn’t feel left out.
We love nylons and suspenders. If you wear them, go one better than most lovers. Put the knickers on over the suspender belt, instead of under. That way, they can come off, leaving those sexy stockings intact. Being inside our woman, while she’s still wearing lingerie blows our mind.
Keep it trim
Shaved bits are a fantastic incentive to get your bloke orally inclined, because there’s so much more to kiss, nuzzle and lick, but stubble needs to be avoided at all costs. Think about it, his face will be moving in an upward direction, against the grain, so avoid making him look like he’s put his head into a box of feral cats, and keep it smooth!